✔️Everyone enjoys intimacy in their relationship, but sensual massage is something completely different and more joyful. Because it’s all about what your partner receives from you.
Whether it’s an anniversary, a date, or just a Tuesday evening, a relaxing sensual massage will always be welcomed. And especially its will be “must have” and important for a large city like London, with the busy lifestyle and schedule of its residents.
Even if you have never had a sensual massage in your life, by following a few tips, you are guaranteed to leave your loved ones with an unforgettable experience.
✔️Most men and women as well, tend to be sensitive to their environment and context. For your partner to be able to completely relax inside, the external environment should also be conducive to relaxation.
– make sure the room is well cleaned and tidy (laundry folded and put away, surfaces clean, etc.);
– use scented candles;
– light delicate/soft incense;
– arrange soft blankets and pillows;
– turn on relaxing ambient music.
– Remove any distractions, and make sure to turn off all electronic devices.
✔️Use natural, pure oil as you will most likely be using it both on the skin and in intimate parts of the body where the skin is most sensitive. Coconut oil is one of the favourites for me.
Place a few tablespoons into a bowl on your nightstand. It will be good if you add a few drops of essential oil to prepare your own infusion.
Obviously, before you apply the oil to the skin of your partner, make sure it’s warm enough for the touch so it doesn’t make unpleasant feelings for them. If the oil is at room temperature or less, rub your hands vigorously for 5 to 10 seconds before applying to the skin. You want everything to be comfortable and soothing. The last thing you want is for your loved one to be afraid of your touch and flinch or to feel them cold.
✔️Use a light and smooth touch – this is important for a sensual massage. The key word here is “sensual.” Sensuality is about provoking, stimulating, and teasing the senses. You don’t need to perform or target deep tissue treatments to relieve chronic knee pain or treat scoliosis. Your goal is to attract all the senses of his attention to the body and where your hands come into contact with the skin.
✔️Be progressive with your pressure and intensity. The lighter and more smooth out the movements, the more exciting the sensual massage will be. If you need to feel the rhythm, imagine that you are massaging your partner in slow motion or as if your partner is sleeping and you are trying not to wake him up but at the same time you want to gently touch and stroke him.
⚠️Note: If your partner falls asleep at some point during the massage, it’s okay. Don’t take it personally, and don’t get so offended. It just means that your partner is so relaxed and in tune with his feelings, which is a great thing.
Start with long, smooth movements of your palms up to the back and all the way down to the arms. Use a twisting technique to keep your lover’s nerve endings guessing (lightly rotate your arms in an unpredictable, non-linear manner throughout the whole body).
✔️When sensual massage is performed by a loved one, the emotional impact of this procedure is many times greater than the effect achieved by a professional massage therapist. In the process of sensual massage, a powerful energy exchange occurs between a man and a woman. It allows you not only to tune into an intimate mood but also to experience a feeling of complete unity, absolute harmony between lovers. The language of massage says what cannot be expressed in words.